Friend

A friend is a companion. A friend is a partner. A friend is there when you need them. Most importantly, a friend respects you for who you are, not who he wants you to be. I cannot say that i am the best a friend could ever have. But ive always wanted the best for my companion which in turn is my greatest weakness. But i cant understand how people could let go years of friendship, just like that. Some might even be jealous of you. Of how good you are, how cool you are and even how popular you are. Honestly, ive been there and i honestly feel that it is just the way you want to think. Why should you be jealous? He is your friend. Unless you yourself feel otherwise. People who acts as if they are the best in the world doesnt deserve a friend.

I am lucky to have a friend , A, who have been with me all these years. You know who you are =). He has been the best friend i could ever have. Even though we dont spend much time together as we used to in secondary school, he still is the best. He respects me, he wants the best for me. And that is all i ask for in a friend. In turn, i respect him. Although i realised that i dont know much about him, i believe there still much time for me to know him. Still it is enough that i know that he can be there for me like i, for him.

Did you know, i had some other friends. But they dont deserve any of my friendship nor my sympathy. These types of people will never feel the bond between friendships, the brotherhood of no-blood relations. Some even call the friends they spend time with, "The Brotherhood". Hah! Does he even know what does having a friend means?! He stink of jealousy and thats the reason why i am no more close with my polymates.
I had a group of friends which i used to hang out with. I chose to not stay with them anymore simply because they dont deserve it. Me and A have tried our very best not to break this bond up. We have tried. But they think that it is ok to let go of this, its their choice, their lost. Weve done everything we could. Still, they wouldnt appreciate our help or even help themselves.

I hope you who reads this would think about your life. Think this through. The next closest thing to you besides your family is your friend. Dont lose them. You only lose your friends because you want to. You make the choices. treasure your friendship as much as you treasure your family. Respect them as you want people to respect you. Like i always say, What You Give Is What You Get. Lets together make this world a better place to live in.

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